The Gratitude Project

Happy Halloween, From All The Wild Things

“Apple, peaches, pumpkin pie, who’s not ready holler, I!”

 Me, that’s who’s not ready. Today, October 31st is upon us. Happy Halloween, Friends. Tomorrow welcomes the month of November and I’m so… not ready. Are you?

What’s a frantic, fall loving gal like me to do. So many plans to make, so many friends and family to visit, and so many new recipes to test on unsuspecting guests. (wink, wink) My head’s in a spin, and I’m talking Linda Blair style.

Okay, maybe it’s not that bad, but you get the picture, right? I’m sure I’m not the only one who sees the writing on the wall, and it’s full of menus, chores, and seasonal commotion. If you have children, multiply the chaos factor by the number of kids that you have, or that linger in your house, and add 1 for each in-law you have. (Just kidding, Folks, I love my hubby’s family.)

Yes, tomorrow my little desk calendar will read November 1st, My heart will pound a tad bit harder. My throat will tighten as my clenching jaw joins in the fun. My brow will furrow just enough to be noticed. (I know, Mom, you warned me and now it’s stuck that way.) Egads, it’s true, November heralds Thanksgiving. Contrary to what my appetite is telling me, it’s not all about the grilled turkey and homemade pumpkin pies. Mmm…pie  It’s about gratitude.

Determined to be proactive against my inner angst and melancholic tendencies, I have devised a plan to counteract my mantic lifestyle, tormented mental state and anxious spirit. I need some strong medicine. I call it the Gratitude Project. It’s just what the doctor ordered. To get with the spirit of thankfulness, starting November 1st, I will post one thing for which I am grateful. Care to join me?

If so, feel free to post here those things for which you’re thankful. Or, jot down your list in a fancy felt journal or nearby tablet. Be sure to share your list with your loved ones. This could be a family project. I know I’m always trying to find meaningful ways in which to bring my sons together.

Gratitude has a way of branching out and upwards!

On November 25th, or whenever you are gathered together with your friends and family, share your lists. Express your heartfelt thanks to God. You don’t have to share everything, just a few items. You’ll be surprised how quickly gratitude can spread.

Desperately Seeking “Ruth”

The past 12 months have been full of so much living, so much frenzied activity, so much joy, and, yes, so much sorrow. I have been savoring the saccharine fullness of a life freely given both in love and service. Much of my busyness has been in raising my four sons and mentoring younger Christian women. This is the life I have chosen, this is the life that I love.  This is the life that changes.

One thing you can always be sure of is that life will change. Fact, life changes. Indeed, it has changed. My husband and I left our ministry of 3 or more years this past March. After much throught and heart searching, we knew that it was time to hand the reigns of this ministry to the up and coming, highly gifted and trained younger leaders. We had done all that was needed. Our role as mentors had come to its natural end. It was time for change.

Then, why the surprise? Why am I so off balance? Why am I so unsettled and shaken to the core?  Why the sorrow? I sit silent, listening ever so carefully to the stillness. The silence answers me not. Trees bend in the wind, swaying to the left and to the right. The wind blows so violently, I fear the branches may snap, but they are supple, young growth. They return intact. Now somehow stronger, they reach out for the sky. It is as if the sky is the limit. Can I be as flexible as in my youth? The trees do not reply.

Will I reach for the sky once again?

Youth, pliable and glowing, is full of possibilities.  It is a stream bubbling with opportunties not yet offered, filled with dreams yet to dream, and, yes, to be lived. Then, hope seems endless. There are so many paths to choose – so many new journeys to be embarked upon. I have lived half the adult lifespan. I am middle aged.

Oh, how I have tasted the many flavors of life. Life is like a bag of jelly beans. Some flavors are delightful, and you just can’t eat enough, while others are sour and leave a bitter taste in your mouth. Quickly, you learn which beans to avoid, but every now and then, a bad bean slips into the promising bowl of candies, and you recklessly bite into another one of life’s disppointments. Sometimes you get caught up in the moment and gobble up too many of a good thing and are left with a queasy stomach. Other times, you forget to savor the sweetness of each moment and regret that you didn’t fully enjoy what you had while you had it. Then, there are the beans that are just too good to eat. You leave them in the bowl, waiting for just the right time to enjoy them. Does it ever come?

Life is like a bag of jelly beans.

I have tasted so many of life’s splendid flavors. I married the love of my life 20 years ago. What joy he has brought to my life. I look forward to many more years. I have four sons, who are becoming young men who walk with the Lord. What sweetness it is to become a mother, not once but four times. To have your kids side with the Lord is a gift beyond words, a hope I hold close to my heart. Anticipating the day they move forward to build their God’s kingdom is a treasure I desire more than I can express. To reconcil with a parent is the joy of redemption. To serve your Lord, even though you are flawed beyond what ought to be, is an honor sweeter than the best honey. I have tasted all these things and so much more.

No doubt about it, I’m middle aged. Over half of my life is behind me. I can’t help, but think of poor old Naomi. Boy, life was sweet to her in her youth. She must have been a lovely, young woman. (When she returned from Moab, her old women friends couldn’t believe how she aged. Her looks were gone.) She married, and they farmed their land in Bethlehem. They had two sons,  Mahlon and Kilion. What a wonderful life Naomi must have invisioned for herself.

But, as we all know life is a mixture of joy and pain. It has a way of giving us disappointment and sorrow. A famine comes to Bethlehem, so Naomi and her hubby head to Moab, a land where the people worshiped idols. While in Moab, her darling husband perishes, and then her two sons, who had married pagan women, die. What sorrow poor ole Noami experienced. In her despair, she returns to Bethlehem as a middle aged, life-worn woman. Ah, poor Naomi.

As Naomi leaves Moab, her daughter-in-laws, Ruth and Orpah, go with her. Naomi admonishes them both to stay in their native land where they may find new husbands. Orpah agrees to remain in Moab, but Ruth does a surprising thing:

 But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.  Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the LORD deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.” Ruth 1:16-17

This must be one of the most beautiful pledges that anyone had ever given to another human. Ruth’s courage and youthful exuberance, rubbed off on Naomi. She was a blessing to her, as Naomi was a blessing to Ruth. What sweetness Ruth bestowed upon middle aged Naomi. And it is to this sweetness that I drawn. It seems to me that in Titus 2 Paul had some advice to the older Christian women.

The youthful exuberance of Ruth

 Then they [the older women] can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children,  to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.  Titus 2:4-5

What does any of this have to do with me? Honestly, I’m not completely sure. I do know that the silence does not speak to you. But when you are still, there is a certain calmness and cessation of activity and absence of control that allows you to submit to the sovereign will of God. There is a release of control to your creator, who loves you and has a plan for your life. After all, we all know that life is in flux. It will change.

 ”Be silent, and know that I am God! I will be honored by every nation. I will be honored throughout the world.” Psalms 46:10

So, here I am, Lord. My name is Lisa. I’m a 43 year old wife and mother of four sons, who knows that God has a plan for my life. God, you are good. As simple as that sounds, it’s true. You designed me to serve and to use those 43 years of life to minister to younger women. I have a purpose.

After season of quiet and comtemplation, I’m stepping out and seeking where the Spirit leads. Maybe He’s leading me to serve in our college ministry. Or, maybe he’s leading my husband and I to reach out to some of our acquaintances, many of whom have been kicked in the seat by life. 

One thing is sure – I’m desperately seeking Ruth.

Pajamas: A Question of Christian Liberty

I ran across the most intriguing Facebook discussion today. Perhaps intriguing isn’t quite the right word. Perhaps outrageous would be more descriptive. A popular pastor posted this as his status:

I will never understand the people who go to the store in their pajamas. If we wanted to see u in them we would come to your house.

This status caught my attention, for I have long desired to walk about openly in my super cheerful pj’s. I still desire to indulge my youthful exuberance – to take a walk on the wild side in my bright blue, cherry patterned flannel night shirt and long bottoms. PJ wearing has always brightened my day when the going gets tough. I liken them to comfort food for the soul. Little did I realize that this behavior was controversial or at least difficult to understand. So I followed the Facebook comments to this posting. Much to my surprise, the Christian community has a lot to say on this topic.

Dare I step outside in my pj's?

The public commentary concerning this topic was mixed. Many took the side of the misunderstood pajamas wearers.  They heartily extended their support to those sporting flannel sock monkey apparel through understanding that many find shopping more relaxing while in their comfy clothes. One anonymous man commented why he thinks people publicly wear pajamas:

I think it’s because it’s nice and relaxing. Which it is and also who cares how a person looks when they go to the store it’s not like anyone needs to impress others with how they dress. As long as they are comfy in it.

Another, less understanding, stated that donning nightwear during the daytime in public is a sign of the downfall of society:

The downfall of the American society: a lack of propriety by people who are too lazy to spend all that time and effort putting on real clothes before leaving their house. (Secretly though, it’s not that hard to get dressed once you’re over age five and have mastered those tricky buttons and zippers.)

One even attributed wearing pj’s to the store as unloving (yikes):

To all those who have made comments about public pj wearing as it relates to Christian liberty:

I’m not casting stones because I stand guilty of this faux pas myself. That being said, I believe part of loving your neighbor as yourself is having good manors, tact and decorum. Good manors and the like are more about treating people around you with respect, not necessarily making yourself look good. By treating other with respect, you show them you love them, thereby obeying Christ’s commands.

So if the aforementioned comment is accurate, it seems that Christ commands us to not wear our jammies to the store. It offends people and is in poor taste as well as being unloving. (Egads!) I suppose that it could be said of anyone wearing any outfit – any outfit you don’t approve of.

Surely, that homeless woman with the Kroger’s shopping cart could find something more appropriate to wear while strolling through campus. You know the lady I am referring to – the one with the unkempt hair and the support stockings that keep falling to her ankles. I am sure her attire has offended many – after all that faded daisy house coat has got to be from the 50′s. When was the last time she laundered those clothes? Geez. She needs to be more loving and put on something less offensive.  (I wonder where Jesus’ brother James would seat this woman at his church gatherings.)

That being said, not only could our attire be unloving since it offends, but public pj wearing is also an heart issue and a sin issue if we are to believe what another person posited.

wearing pajamas to public is not a pajamas issue but a heart issue.
there’s sin in being lazy and in not loving your neighbor. and there’s also sin in caring about what people think of you. both could be an idol.

Okay, so now I’m really confused. If I wear pj’s outside of my own home, then I am being lazy and not loving my neighbor. I have offended others by not respecting them with my attire, so I better choose carefully what I wear. On the other hand,  if I care what others think of me, then now I have sinned yet again. So many rules. So many differing opinions. So many fallible humans to please. Help!

So I ask, “Why not please God?” Why not be free from all these petty rules? Why put ourselves under some arbitary regulations when we have been bought with a price? Have we not be set free? Have not the bonds of slavery been released? Galatians 5:1 says,

It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery.

So, idk. Why make a fuss about what someone is wearing? Honestly anymore I just appreciate that someone is wearing clothes. So will I make a trip to ACME in my jammers? Should I dare to offend? Or should I live under the law of liberty?

What would you do?

Okay, I admit it. I’m a freak.

Jesus Freak. Though they’d never say it aloud, that’s how my family perceives me. I suppose it’s our dirty little secret. As a college student of the 80′s, I abandoned the Lutheran church of my youth and defied convention by attending a non-traditional church. Not only did I ”attend” meetings at this non-denominational church, but I also began to study the bible on my own. I started telling people what I learned about Jesus. I wanted to live my life for Jesus. It was exciting. I was alive.  In fact, Jesus had changed the direction of my life.  I could no longer keep silent. I had to tell people what Christ had done for me and what He had to offer them. My raw zeal was unsettling for those closest to me.       

Once my family accepted that this change was not some passing fancy or childish whim, I began receiving Christian placards and knick-knacks as gifts.  One wedding gift, a wall clock  bearing the inscription “We are one love together,” typifies a common born-again stereotype. My faith had been reduced to refrigerator drivel. (Sigh) But worse than framed platitudes is that my family considers me to be a religious extremist. Honestly, that makes me cringe. Who in their right mind wants to be known as or called an extremist? Not me.       

This is one placard, I just might consider putting over my toilet.

This is one placard, I just might consider putting over my toilet.

 You see, I want people to like me, but more importantly to like Jesus. I like to hear what is going on in folks’ lives. I want good things for those I care about, and nothing could be better than knowing Jesus. I don’t always talk about my faith. No one likes a pushy person, but when I do talk about Jesus, I hope that people will want to listen – to just give him a chance. After all, if I am sharing Jesus with you, it’s because you are important to me. So, if that makes me a “Jesus Freak,” an extremist, then that’s alright with me. Or so, I console myself.        

One problem though, religious extremism has been blamed for societal ills for as long as religion has existed. There are historical reasons for this.  From the brutal child sacrifice of the Chaldeans to right-wing acts of terror against abortion clinics, from Colonial slave trade to American racial segregation, from the savagery of the Spanish Inquisition to the near genocide of Native Americans, and from the Salem Witch Trials to the exploitation and oppression of women, such terrors and destruction are all done in the  name of religion. This list could go on ad nauseum. Indeed, these atrocities have all been committed in the name of religious fundamentalism. That sort of  terror is what typifies extremism. But is this a fair assessment?        

In the article, Taming Religion, Mark Galli, senior managing editor of Christianity Today, addresses the trend to tame the religious extremists of today, whether of Islam or of Christianity. He observes the perception that both religions, practiced to the extreme, are a societal threat both to democracy and to religious freedom. Indeed, the horror and mayhem of “9/11″ confirmed this assertion. This is not just a view held in the United States, but worldwide. Galli remarks,       

Many Africans are concerned about religious extremism, including within their own faith. Indeed, many Muslims say they are more concerned about Muslim extremism than about Christian extremism, and Christians in four countries say they are more concerned about Christian extremism than about Muslim extremism.        

In the Galli article, Archpriest Vsevolod Chaplin, a senior Russian Orthodox Church spokesman, concludes that the danger with religious extremism is that it “results in deaths.” In his editorial, Galli agrees. He points out that a particular extremist from Galilee died as a result to of his extremism. In fact, Galli goes as far as to call this Jesus of Nazareth, The Extremist. (Jesus, an extremist. Say what?)       

Galli further notes that many extremists “take care” of themselves. For instance, Martin Luther King Jr. dared to stand opposed to segregation. King dared to equate this civil injustice with “sin,” calling it “unrighteous.” He dared to stand by the truth of the Bible. Defiant, King brought God’s perspective into the political arena. His extremist actions of civil disobedience and protestation led to his own death.   (I see where Galli is going with this.)       

Christians agree that Jesus was wise – a man of peace. Milk toast moderates pick and choose what parts of scripture are valid. Galli points out that Jesus, The Extremist, did not just bring words of peace and joy. He brought words that separate and divide.        

 ”I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.” (Matt. 10:34–35)        

Or words like:        

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal” (Matt 6:19–20)        

Pretty divisive words, huh?     

Radical Living Gets Noticed

Jesus was an extremist, and so were those who followed him, men like Peter, Paul, John, and the rest of the apostles. More extremists followed their path of radically living out what they preached. Many deaths resulted.  Remember the Christian martyrs like Stephen who died in Jerusalem, or the thousands more who died in the Roman Colosseum, or still yet, those who were burned at the stake for putting the Bible in vernacular language, men like Tyndale, another extremist.  More deaths followed. What about those Christians who are today’s martyrs? Those extremists are reportedly imprisoned and slain in places like China, India, and all throughout the world for their beliefs. More deaths will surely follow.       

Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you.  1Peter 4:12

Seemingly, man must suppress the piercing words of the one true Extremist, Jesus Christ. People use various methods to hold down this truth. They use force to stuff it down – to silence it. Perhaps, they fear its power to change. It’s power to give civil equality to all regardless of race or gender. For the the Bible tells me, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free,  male nor female.” Some kill those who proclaim it, while others mock and make fun of those who follow Christ. Yet more, use clever scholastic means to distort the truth. They pick and choose what is relevant or worth living, because if one had to live as Christ did and as he preached, then the life that one believes he is owed would be impossible to live. Botta bing, botta boom. So much for Western individualism and the pursuit of happiness.       

Many reason, “Oh, that nice, lamb-hugging Jesus really did not mean that I need to love my neighbor as myself.”  But what if he did? Then what? That means a life lived with the interests of others being foremost. You are no longer the center of your own life. In The Wrath of Khan, Spock once said, “The needs of the many out weigh the needs of the one.” Looks like that dear, old Vulcan was on to something radical. The audience swoons at his nobility. Spock too was extreme. It led to his death. Something that extraordinary, that fantastic must lead to verifiable deviation from the path most taken. People take notice when you live out what you say you believe. People can tell when you take the path less trodden.     

How great is the company of preachers who have suffered willlingly for His name.

If you’re like me and want to tell the “Old, Old Story of Jesus and His Love,” don’t be embarrassed to stand out. Tell His Story. If friends and family think they’re insulting you by calling you an extremist, wear the label “Jesus Freak” with honor. Know that you are in good company with people who just can’t keep quiet about Jesus – people like the apostles and those currently persecuted and imprisoned for their faith. People whose stories are told in the Jesus Freaks Books by dcTalk.    

Or if you will, consider this middle-aged, house wife and mother of four boys. I like to talk about Jesus. If people think that I am a tad too consumed with Jesus, or if they have the need to snicker at how I live my life for Jesus (By no means do I have this down. I’m still “hot mess.” ), then I am okay with that. I’m better than okay, I’m freaky with it! My name is Lisa and I’m a Jesus Freak.

Lent Picking

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It must be the Lenten season, right? Turn on the television or the radio. McDonalds promotes its filet-o-fish sandwich.  The campy wall bass now calls out via cell phone to those seeking a “meatless” repast. The local news reports on people heartedly devoted to completing the Northeast Ohio fish fry circuit, after all you only have forty days to partake in all that battered, fried goodness. So many parishes to hit. So little time.

People suddenly are giving up the things they love. Some deny themselves sugar, others “smokes.”  Denying oneself pleasure is the object of the season. Then there are those who cease to consume meat. One will abstain from all meat including fish for 40 days while another will substitute red meat with fish on Fridays only. People seem to pick and chose what they do. Are there rules?

I’ve asked people why they abstain from meat, substitute fish on Fridays or why they give up anything during the season of Lent. Most people answer that don’t know why they do it. It’s just what one does during this time of year if you’re Catholic. Many evangelicals say that they just like the idea of giving up something for the Lord. My favorite reason for abstinence comes from those who have no religious motivation. They just want to fit in with their Catholic and well-meaning Protestant friends. It’s fun to fit in.

I grew up in the Lutheran Church. I had little exposure to this concept of giving up something for Lent. Lutherans observed the Lenten season and were encouraged to solemnly consider Christ’s sacrifice and our relationship with our Savior, but did not practice fasting (honestly, I never met a Lutheran who would willingly give up a meal). It wasn’t until I attended the public high school that I came into contact with this idea of seasonal abstinence. (How fitting that this season was the forerunner of bikini season).

At first, I was rather perplexed by the Lenten practices. Quickly, I warmed up to the idea that I could do something for God to show Him just how great I was and how much I loved Him. I had always been drawn to the idea that somehow I could validate my devotion to the Lord through some act of my will. What better way to prove your love than to impose self “suffering.” I found this ritual completely delightful. The bonus was that as a teenage girl, I could refuse to eat and it would be considered godly and not psychologically unhealthy. Godly devotion trumps parental concern. I win and get to serve God. What could be better?

That was the perpective of a teenager who struggled with a border line eating disorder, but is it much different from how Lent observers reason today? Seriously, how does giving up something benefit God? What can man do for the Lord that God lacks?

It seems that people who observe Lent through self denial are well intentioned. They desire to worship the Lord and to honor Him. Many seem very sincere in their abstention, sincerely mistaken. The Lord himself points out the folly of misguided human tradition.

Then the Lord said, “Because this people draw near with their words And honor Me with their lip service, But they remove their hearts far from Me, And their reverence for Me consists of tradition learned by rote. Isaiah 29:13

Jesus rebukes the religious people of his day in Mark 7: 7-8.

“Their worship is a farce, for they teach man-made ideas as commands from God. For you ignore God’s law and substitute your own tradition.”

No where in scripture does Christ command that his followers participate in a 40 day fast of remembrance commemorating his death and resurrection. The only rituals which Christ instituted are communion and baptism.

Now people have told me that fasting is a way to draw near to God. They say that spiritual disciplines are a means to see more clearly the way and will of the Lord,“For man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.” Perhaps they are onto something. Didn’t Jesus fast for 40 days and nights in the desert prior to entering his adult years of ministry? Didn’t Jesus, who happened to be God, do battle with Satan in the wilderness, weilding the word of God as his only weapon? Perhaps this is the goal of eating fish on Fridays?

Yes, clearly I am Lent picking. My main beef (he-he) with Lent is not that people want to be near to God or even that they have a need to reflect on what Christ accomplished on the cross. Those are good things to consider. What vexes me is that people, through human rituals and observance, are trying to be righteous before God through their own efforts. This is just plain madness. Paul raved about this foolish tendency in Galatians 3.

1You foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? Before your very eyes Jesus Christ was clearly portrayed as crucified. 2I would like to learn just one thing from you: Did you receive the Spirit by observing the law, or by believing what you heard? 3Are you so foolish? After beginning with the Spirit, are you now trying to attain your goal by human effort?

Christianity is all about freedom. Freedom from sin. Freedom from “works” and the law. Freedom from slavery. Freedom from death. Galatians 5:1 reads:

 1It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.

So, let’s not deceive ourselves during this traditional season of penitence. We are not bound by rules or regulations, nor do we need to observe special seasons and festivals. Each day we live in Christ is a victorious feast of community in relationship. The rules have been abolished. There is no need for filet-o-fish advertisement campaigns. No longer a need to fill McDonald’s coffers with slave money. We are free to eat meat -  free to dig into a Salisbury steak dinner on Friday.

I say free the fish!

Hallowed Whine

It happens each year. The air cools; the days shorten; leaves burst into brilliant color, soon to fall to the ground. Inside things are happening too. Lights are carefully placed on the mantel; pumpkins, ghosts, spiders, and bats fill my living space; soon it will be Halloween.

I love this festive season. The kids look forward to trips to the pumpkin patch. There is firewood to be delivered and Jiffy Pop to burn. Leaf piles grow,  inviting all to jump into with glee. Cider, don’t even get me going about the cider. The smell of spiced cider simmering on the stove delights the senses and promises of pumpkin bread yet to be devoured. Soon jack-o-lanterns will be carved and pumpkin seeds will be roasted and seasoned to perfection.

What a time to play dress up and to stay up late watching your favorite “scary movie.” Kids visibly tranform into monsters, heros, princesses and frogs and run door-to-door demanding a treat else you suffer the risk of a “trick.” Adults get dressed up as well, playing with their children and with one another. Oh, the games they play.

These are the activities of the season – ingrained into our culture as much as apple pie and baseball, yet so many Christians stand opposed to these festivities. Why? This has always baffled me. Why stand outside and opposed to your culture?  After all, most Christians have no problem celebrating Easter or Christmas, but Halloween, now that’s a different story.

I’ve heard Christians tell me that they want no part in Satan’s holiday. Are they kidding me? What makes Halloween more depraved than any other celebration? They tell me that dressing up in monster outfits honors demons and shames Jesus. Seriously? Thay insist that Halloween is the day of witchcraft and black magic. Huh? Okay, One of my kids did dress as Darth Maul and Darth Vader. True, they used the Force and enslaved the free world through violence and oppression, but Satanic? I think not. Geez.

Ummm...yeah this is a great way to evangelize in your neighborhood.

Ummm...yeah this is a great way to evangelize in your neighborhood.

Occasionally, Christians argue that this holiday was rooted in a pagan festival called the Samhain. Basically, the Samhain was a Celtic harvest festival which celebrated the end of summer at which time the Celts believed that the boundaries between the living and the dead were able to be crossed. In order to protect and hide oneself from these evil spirits, the living had to masquarade as the dead; thus, deceiving the Banshees, and therefore, escaping Death’s clutches yet another year. To disguise oneself became a matter of survival in a dark world ruled by the fear of death.  So, it seems that Halloween may indeed be linked to a pagan festival. But what of other more “Christian” festivals? Are their origins any less godless?

Christmas’s origins are as pagan as Halloween’s. December 25th corresponds with the winter solstice. On that day, Romans celebrated the Dies Natalis Solis Invicti. This was the birthday of the Unconquered Sun. This allowed for many solar deities to be worshipped on the same date. The Persian god Mithras, Roman Sol, and Syrian Elagabalus  all were worshipped throughout the Roman Empire on the 25th. Christian Christmas also corresponds to the Roman Festival, the Saturnalia, where social roles were reversed, as masters became servants and servants masters,  and much merrymaking occurred. The church fathers, such as Bede, even agreed that Christ was most likely born in the springtime. Therefore, Christmastime has more incommon with pagan celebrations and debauchery than with Christianity.

Though Easter’s origins can be tied to the Jewish Passover, many argue that this holiday has the most pagan of beginnings. The etymology of the word “easter” has its base in the names of fertility goddesses, such as Eostre. Most fertility goddess had festivals in spring which directly corresponded to the time of Easter’s observance. Also, other “resurrection” gods were worshipped in the springtime. Among the “gods” celebrated are Bacchaus, Adonis and Attis. The most compelling correlation, which supports pagan beginnings for Easter, is between Attis and Christ. Attis was the consort of the Phyrgian fertility goddess Cybele. He was believed to have had a virgin birth and was gored to death by a wild bore after he self-castrated himself. He died as a result of this violence, but was reborn, bearing the scars of his death, as a eunuch. Therefore, many argue that Easter has a great, if not greater, connection to the occult.

So, if Halloween is to be feared and avoided by Christians, then too ought Christmas and Easter. Perhaps Paul said it best in his letter to the Colossians.

16 So don’t let anyone condemn you for what you eat or drink, or for not celebrating certain holy days or new moon ceremonies or Sabbaths. 17 For these rules are only shadows of the reality yet to come. And Christ himself is that reality. 18 Don’t let anyone condemn you by insisting on pious self-denial or the worship of angels, saying they have had visions about these things. Their sinful minds have made them proud, 19 and they are not connected to Christ, the head of the body. For he holds the whole body together with its joints and ligaments, and it grows as God nourishes it. 20 You have died with Christ, and he has set you free from the spiritual powers of this world. So why do you keep on following the rules of the world, such as, 21 “Don’t handle! Don’t taste! Don’t touch!”? 22 Such rules are mere human teachings about things that deteriorate as we use them. 23 These rules may seem wise because they require strong devotion, pious self-denial, and severe bodily discipline. But they provide no help in conquering a person’s evil desires. Col 2:16-23

See, we were set free from this world. As Christians we have a new freedom to live as beloved sons and daughters. We no longer have to worry about conforming to the things of this world. It’s not about what you do or don’t do. It’s about who you are, because of who Christ is.

Halloween is fun. Kids love it. Communities act like communities. It’s one night a year that people go door to door and greet their neighbors. People slow down and talk to one another. It’s fun and it’s freedom in practice.

If anything, Christians should be even more involved  in this hallowed evening. Christians should have the best parties, have  tastefully haunted displays, open their homes to neighbors, display the warmest hospitality, give out the best candy, and above all show your community that you are a part of it!

This past weekend my friend, who’s a Christian, hosted a great get together in our neighborhood. She invited friends and opened her garage to the local high school students. Those students put on the best PG haunted house in town. The high school students had a great time socializing. What an amazing way to be in the world and not of the world. This is Christ’s witness – Christ focused love.

Kudos, Angie. May Christ be glorified through your serving endevour.

Christians, instead of whining about how terrible kids are and how wicked Halloween is, do something radical. Throw the best party in town – it doesn’t have to be huge. Just make a statement for Christ. One that is anything but whiny.

Hallowed Whine

It happens each year. The air cools; the days shorten; leaves burst into brilliant color, soon to fall to the ground. Inside things are happening too. Lights are carefully placed on the mantel; pumpkins, ghosts, spiders, and bats fill my living space; soon it will be Halloween.

I love this festive season. The kids look forward to trips to the pumpkin patch. There is firewood to be delivered and Jiffy Pop to burn. Leaf piles grow,  inviting all to jump into with glee. Cider, don’t even get me going about the cider. The smell of spiced cider simmering on the stove delights the senses and promises of pumpkin bread yet to be devoured. Soon jack-o-lanterns will be carved and pumpkin seeds will be roasted and seasoned to perfection.

What a time to play dress up and to stay up late watching your favorite “scary movie.” Kids visibly tranform into monsters, heros, princesses and frogs and run door-to-door demanding a treat else you suffer the risk of a “trick.” Adults get dressed up as well, playing with their children and with one another. Oh, the games they play.

These are the activities of the season – ingrained into our culture as much as apple pie and baseball, yet so many Christians stand opposed to these festivities. Why? This has always baffled me. Why stand outside and opposed to your culture?  After all, most Christians have no problem celebrating Easter or Christmas, but Halloween, now that’s a different story.

I’ve heard Christians tell me that they want no part in Satan’s holiday. Are they kidding me? What makes Halloween more depraved than any other celebration? They tell me that dressing up in monster outfits honors demons and shames Jesus. Seriously? Thay insist that Halloween is the day of witchcraft and black magic. Huh? Okay, One of my kids did dress as Darth Maul and Darth Vader. True, they used the Force and enslaved the free world through violence and oppression, but Satanic? I think not. Geez.

Ummm...yeah this is a great way to evangelize in your neighborhood.

Ummm...yeah this is a great way to evangelize in your neighborhood.

Occasionally, Christians argue that this holiday was rooted in a pagan festival called the Samhain. Basically, the Samhain was a Celtic harvest festival which celebrated the end of summer at which time the Celts believed that the boundaries between the living and the dead were able to be crossed. In order to protect and hide oneself from these evil spirits, the living had to masquarade as the dead; thus, deceiving the Banshees, and therefore, escaping Death’s clutches yet another year. To disguise oneself became a matter of survival in a dark world ruled by the fear of death.  So, it seems that Halloween may indeed be linked to a pagan festival. But what of other more “Christian” festivals? Are their origins any less godless?

Christmas’s origins are as pagan as Halloween’s. December 25th corresponds with the winter solstice. On that day, Romans celebrated the Dies Natalis Solis Invicti. This was the birthday of the Unconquered Sun. This allowed for many solar deities to be worshipped on the same date. The Persian god Mithras, Roman Sol, and Syrian Elagabalus  all were worshipped throughout the Roman Empire on the 25th. Christian Christmas also corresponds to the Roman Festival, the Saturnalia, where social roles were reversed, as masters became servants and servants masters,  and much merrymaking occurred. The church fathers, such as Bede, even agreed that Christ was most likely born in the springtime. Therefore, Christmastime has more incommon with pagan celebrations and debauchery than with Christianity.

Though Easter’s origins can be tied to the Jewish Passover, many argue that this holiday has the most pagan of beginnings. The etymology of the word “easter” has its base in the names of fertility goddesses, such as Eostre. Most fertility goddess had festivals in spring which directly corresponded to the time of Easter’s observance. Also, other “resurrection” gods were worshipped in the springtime. Among the “gods” celebrated are Bacchaus, Adonis and Attis. The most compelling correlation, which supports pagan beginnings for Easter, is between Attis and Christ. Attis was the consort of the Phyrgian fertility goddess Cybele. He was believed to have had a virgin birth and was gored to death by a wild bore after he self-castrated himself. He died as a result of this violence, but was reborn, bearing the scars of his death, as a eunuch. Therefore, many argue that Easter has a great, if not greater, connection to the occult.

So, if Halloween is to be feared and avoided by Christians, then too ought Christmas and Easter. Perhaps Paul said it best in his letter to the Colossians.

16 So don’t let anyone condemn you for what you eat or drink, or for not celebrating certain holy days or new moon ceremonies or Sabbaths. 17 For these rules are only shadows of the reality yet to come. And Christ himself is that reality. 18 Don’t let anyone condemn you by insisting on pious self-denial or the worship of angels, saying they have had visions about these things. Their sinful minds have made them proud, 19 and they are not connected to Christ, the head of the body. For he holds the whole body together with its joints and ligaments, and it grows as God nourishes it. 20 You have died with Christ, and he has set you free from the spiritual powers of this world. So why do you keep on following the rules of the world, such as, 21 “Don’t handle! Don’t taste! Don’t touch!”? 22 Such rules are mere human teachings about things that deteriorate as we use them. 23 These rules may seem wise because they require strong devotion, pious self-denial, and severe bodily discipline. But they provide no help in conquering a person’s evil desires. Col 2:16-23

See, we were set free from this world. As Christians we have a new freedom to live as beloved sons and daughters. We no longer have to worry about conforming to the things of this world. It’s not about what you do or don’t do. It’s about who you are, because of who Christ is.

Halloween is fun. Kids love it. Communities act like communities. It’s one night a year that people go door to door and greet their neighbors. People slow down and talk to one another. It’s fun and it’s freedom in practice.

If anything, Christians should be even more involved  in this hallowed evening. Christians should have the best parties, have  tastefully haunted displays, open their homes to neighbors, display the warmest hospitality, give out the best candy, and above all show your community that you are a part of it!

This past weekend my friend, who’s a Christian, hosted a great get together in our neighborhood. She invited friends and opened her garage to the local high school students. Those students put on the best PG haunted house in town. The high school students had a great time socializing. What an amazing way to be in the world and not of the world. This is Christ’s witness – Christ focused love.

Kudos, Angie. May Christ be glorified through your serving endevour.

Christians, instead of whining about how terrible kids are and how wicked Halloween is, do something radical. Throw the best party in town – it doesn’t have to be huge. Just make a statement for Christ. One that is anything but whiny.

Wrapping It All Up – deli style

Wrapping it all up (deli style)

Think of the church like a sandwich wrap. The mission is like the outside of the sandwich. It is wrapped around its fivefold purpose. This mission holds the church together and provides the reason why we do what we do as a church. The delicious, aromatic substance of the church is what is bound by her mission. The substance of evangelism, discipleship, ministry, worship and community is her purpose and is held intact by her mission. (Oh, I had a hankering for a wrap today.)

Sandwich wraps = Church's mission enfolds her purpose

Sandwich wraps = Church's mission enfolds her purpose

How well a church understands her mission and the reasons for that mission partially determines how effective and faithful a church is. Also to be considered is how well the mission field is defined. Questions must be asked. Who are we reaching? Why? Are we equipped to reach that particular group? What must we change to be effective without altering the substance of the message? These questions and more need to be considered, when there is a call for change or repentance.

Also, there is a need to assess whether a church is effectively performing her function through purposeful activity. This activity is the substance of church. This purpose is the work of those who belong to Christ. This is our witness to the world and it must accommodate the needs of its current culture and be willing to change – to repent.

Indeed, there is a need for repentance by the church. She is ever the unfaithful bride of Christ. Repentance goes beyond rethinking the church – repentance is heart change and cannot only be accomplished as our wills are submitted to the will of the author and perfecter of our faith. Our eyes must first be fixed on Jesus who “for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

We too, as those who have been called to share in His sufferings as well as in His glory, bound together in love, must be willing to endure suffering and shame for the sake of those lost in darkness. We, as Revolutionaries, are called to subvert this current world system of brokenness, rigidity and slavery through the proclamation of good news, for Christ came to do as Isaiah prophesied in chapter 61:1.

 1The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me,
         Because the LORD has anointed me
         To bring good news to the afflicted;
         He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
         To proclaim liberty to captives
         And freedom to prisoners;

 It’s time for a change of heart.

Wrapping It All Up – deli style

Wrapping it all up (deli style)

Think of the church like a sandwich wrap. The mission is like the outside of the sandwich. It is wrapped around its fivefold purpose. This mission holds the church together and provides the reason why we do what we do as a church. The delicious, aromatic substance of the church is what is bound by her mission. The substance of evangelism, discipleship, ministry, worship and community is her purpose and is held intact by her mission. (Oh, I had a hankering for a wrap today.)

Sandwich wraps = Church's mission enfolds her purpose

Sandwich wraps = Church's mission enfolds her purpose

How well a church understands her mission and the reasons for that mission partially determines how effective and faithful a church is. Also to be considered is how well the mission field is defined. Questions must be asked. Who are we reaching? Why? Are we equipped to reach that particular group? What must we change to be effective without altering the substance of the message? These questions and more need to be considered, when there is a call for change or repentance.

Also, there is a need to assess whether a church is effectively performing her function through purposeful activity. This activity is the substance of church. This purpose is the work of those who belong to Christ. This is our witness to the world and it must accommodate the needs of its current culture and be willing to change – to repent.

Indeed, there is a need for repentance by the church. She is ever the unfaithful bride of Christ. Repentance goes beyond rethinking the church – repentance is heart change and cannot only be accomplished as our wills are submitted to the will of the author and perfecter of our faith. Our eyes must first be fixed on Jesus who “for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

We too, as those who have been called to share in His sufferings as well as in His glory, bound together in love, must be willing to endure suffering and shame for the sake of those lost in darkness. We, as Revolutionaries, are called to subvert this current world system of brokenness, rigidity and slavery through the proclamation of good news, for Christ came to do as Isaiah prophesied in chapter 61:1.

 1The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me,
         Because the LORD has anointed me
         To bring good news to the afflicted;
         He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
         To proclaim liberty to captives
         And freedom to prisoners;

 It’s time for a change of heart.

Rethinking: Community

Community

 

The last function of the church addressed by White is the purpose of community, also understood as fellowship. He identifies several aspects of community in need of repentance. These include a lack of authenticity, the presence of broken relationships, and a spirit of exclusion.

 

The absence of authenticity has to do with the leaven in the church, hypocrisy. Jesus reserved his most harsh and scathing remarks for the Pharisees, the religious leaders of his day. In Luke 11, Jesus warns them of their perilous heart attitudes.

Woe to you Pharisees, because you give God a tenth of your mint, rue and all other kinds of garden herbs, but you neglect justice and the love of God. You should have practiced the latter without leaving the former undone. – v 42

Woe to you Pharisees, because you love the most important seats in the synagogues and greetings in the marketplaces. – v 43

Woe to you, because you are like unmarked graves, which men walk over without knowing it.” – v 44

 

And Jesus stresses the gravity of this hyprocrisy in Matthew 23.

 

Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when he becomes one, you make him twice as much a son of hell as you are. V – 15

You snakes! You brood of vipers! How will you escape being condemned to hell? V – 33

 It went down something like this.

Hypokritēs is the Greek word for our “hypocrite.” It has the meaning of one who acts or performs on the stage. In Greek theater, the actors wore masks which portrayed the part being played. Today in our churches we all wear masks, don’t we. We smile and are so dishonest. Do we share about the drinking problem our parent may have? Do we open up that we yell at our children or that we have contempt for our spouse? Do we remove our masks and expose our weaknesses? We should, else we too are just as deceptive as the Pharisees whom Jesus so vehemently rebuked.

The second problem White addresses is the presence of broken relationships within the church community. This is a serious problem one that dishonors Christ and the witness of His Body. Such a body will not grow.

Once, while I was involved in a small group, a break down in relationship occurred between a fellow sister and me. What is shocking is not that we were sinful and unwilling to reconcile with one another, but that our fellow brothers and sisters allowed, even encouraged this division. We would talk to others about this problem, but never with one another. Then one day, I listened to the conviction of the Holy Spirit and went to my sister to reconcile. To my horror, I learned that my sister had conspired with others in our group and got “permission” from them to write off our friendship – stating that we had never been friends to begin with. This hurt was most difficult. Needless to say, that group soon disbanded and was a loss, but the hurt and damage was not soon undone and had lasting ramifications for all involved.

The author of Hebrews in chapter 12, verses 14 and 15, addresses the urgency to resolve division within the body:

Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.

 

If someone has a problem with you, go with haste and resolve what is causing division. Every effort must be made to be at peace with all men. What words of wisdom to live by. Oh, if only I had adhered to these words, how different the outcome could have been for my small group.

 

The third breakdown in community that White identifies is the spirit of exclusion. James addresses this problem in his the second chapter of his letter. Here, preference is being given to those of wealth. Greater honor is being given to the more seemly members. This is contrary to scripture for 1 Corinthians 12:23-25 says that, “and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.” In other words, pay greater care to those who are not like you. This brings honor to your church and glory to God.

The church ought to repent of these damaging manifestations of sin in the community and instead work at authenticity through loving and being loved, knowing and being known, serving and being served, celebrating and being celebrated.

Love is risky and pain is sure to follow. White quotes C. S. Lewis, who notes the immense risk of loving others:

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket – safe, dark, motionless, airless – it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable …. The only place outside of Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers … of love is Hell.

As for the other manifestations of community, they are addressed under worship. For when we as a community are serving one another in joy and with openness, then God is glorified. This worship should be occurring daily in our lives as we interact with those in our body, in our families or at work and within our neighborhoods. Living actively as Christians in Christ centered community is our act of worship.

Does NeoXenos exemplify such a vibrant Christian community? What about my home group? My women’s bible study? My family? After deep contemplation, I believe community starts with an individual conviction of the heart for change – a heart that knows that it is deceived and that can only be healed by God.

I realize that I do not exhort my fellow brothers and sisters enough with the word. Often someone has a problem or a character issue and I seemingly listen intently or offer examples of how I understand their situation. Identifying with others can be so attractive, but without the insight of the Lord it is neither productive or beneficial towards genuine change.

How often do we as a body, approve of sin omitting to speak the truth in love? Do we consult the word of the Lord? Are we too quick to answer, or do we struggle together to seek the counsel of the Lord? Do we deprive a sister or brother the joy of finding God’s answer in the word, or do we cough up the answer for lack of patience or of want of grace? Looks like I have the need for repentance.